I feel like today I got to the point I want to ask for a divorce. I have know about the affair for 3 months and been physically seperated for 1 month. She continues to have the affair and will not listen to any one who tells her she is making a big mistake. My problem is she doesn't have a job. She is a teacher and probably can't start one if she finds one until July or August. I can't really afford two houses until she gets a job. What do I do, just stay seperated until then? Do I tell her I want a divorce , but will wait until she is financially stable? Bite the bullet and just be broke for 8 months. Don't tell her anything and just continue on living seperated. Any opinions or experience in this area?
Me:39 WW: 39 Kids: 11,8,4 Married: 15 years Together 17 years PA discovered November 2016 Separated living in same house - ended 1/2017 Separated, kids in house, taking turns staying in house
