Yes still here...The only time I am able to get on is at work as my STBXW is usually home or if she isn't I'm spending my time with the kids. I haven't been to work since last week due to a death in the family.
Nothing much new, have a mediation meeting next week and divorce will be final May 2nd. I have been busy with kids activities which is every night of the week and Saturdays, continue to work out and get out every Thursday night for poker.
R is the same, wife hates being in the same house as me although she seems a little less angry towards me lately but there is still always tension no matter what. She hates Friday's because I am home because I work 4 days a week and those are the days she either avoids me or lets her anger out. I still just try to do the best in the situation I can, validate her feelings allow her to express her frustration and anger. A lot of times it is things I've done in the past or minor things that happen in the present that bring up feelings of the past and this is the reason she is going through with the divorce.
H:44 W:43 M:17 S:15 S:14 S:12 W mentions divorce 8/2015 W files divorce 10/2016 D will be final 4/2017 Living together & will for a while
