I think it's the sister who has the issue...not the firefighter! I would just leave it. You can bet she'll tell him that you find him "adorable" and if he wants to follow up he will. Just keep in mind that if this happens and doesn't work out how will it effect your gym attendance? You love your workouts, so be careful.
Where there is smoke... The idea didn't come from nowhere, and plus the fact that he told her she was his favorite person or something. There are all sorts of flares popping off. The very least she needs to quash that quick.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
Where there is smoke... The idea didn't come from nowhere, and plus the fact that he told her she was his favorite person or something. There are all sorts of flares popping off. The very least she needs to quash that quick.
No, he made a joke and told me I was his favorite person.
I was chatting with my other friend from the gym. everyone seems to think he likes me.
he asks me out, and I would go.
it won't interfere with my workouts, especially since I think she is leaving my gym.
It's just nice to have a mutual crush. With such a nice guy too.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
Ok, so I just found out that one of the other instructors made a joke that (we shall call him L) "Ginger took the 4:30 class instead of the 6, L is going to be so crushed!"
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
I'd day they have either guessed it on their own or he has said something. You really don't need to ask him out in the short term. I'd be available and friendly. Let him know you'd be interested. If he doesn't act on it within a few weeks, you might want to drop a few more hints or even bring up how these people are saying you guys should be dating or whatever. Let him know you'd say yes if he asked. If you do that he likely will. That's my suggestion. I would not run due to what his sister said. No concern there.
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Yep. Covered. If she's interested, why not say lets get coffee? What is the harm in that? Thing is, she's old enough to not play these "let's see if he's attracted to me" games. The worst that could happen would be a "no," but from all appearances that won't be the case. I've had quite a few ask me out/coffee/lunch and I haven't thought negatively of them. Different times, my friend.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
