Cristy,

I'm still here. Just a quick update The holidays were a rollercoaster for us both. There were moments where we had great fun and then there were moments where she felt that she does not believe it could work. My W has always had a pessimistic outlook on life and I was the opposite. You are right and that there are setbacks. My W is still very depressed from the A and believes she can never be happy with me again. It is so hard to deal with the hot and cold moods. I'm not sure of how to convince her with my actions that we can be happy again because she still does not believe that she could love me again. I also know that the A has not started again. Even though we still make love and go on dates I can't help but wonder too if she'll ever have that level of love for me again.


- M:32 and WW:31 D4
- Married 5 years, 11 years together
- ilybinilwy 9/28 EA Confirmed + request for divorce
- 10/16 Affair ended
- 10/28 WW wants to reconcile after I agree on divorce
- Current - Piecing