The problem is I was already attentive, already was an engaged listener, already was affectionate, already helped out plenty around the house.
Originally Posted By: brizz
Another big issue is my W doesn't think she has any problems, thinks she is perfect and projects everything onto me.
Hmmmmmmmmmm......
Yeah...that's a flag if there is ever one.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.