I know we can't blame kids for being kids, but telling you to be happy like OM--those are daggers to the heart and I applaud you for keeping it together.

I too am concerned about my W exposing my kids to mediocre men or worse...but I guess there's nothing we can do about that (assuming they are not in danger), right? We can only fix our side of the street.

Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving