MLC? Maybe you can tell me...

[Gordie]

I'm no MLC expert but you asked if we can tell you. It feels like he is running away from the challenges of life...career not working out, a difficult parenting situation, and what to him might feel like a loveless and sexless M...and into the arms of the OW. Those are signs of panic, immaturity, selfishness, maybe depression, maybe MLC. Is he obsessed with aging/youth, working out/appearance, fear of sickness/death? Have you read that famous John Updike novel about a man like your H who is trying to run away from his life and makes messes wherever he goes?