What does everyone do when you really just want to talk to the walkaway wife?
Ive been good the past days, but suddenly i just want to talk and have her explain what shes feeling and if she's still wanting to throw away our marriage and family.
Nothing. There is no talking to them about that, as it would be seen as pushing in their mind, which it really is I guess. Saying that they are throwing away the family will put her even more on the defensive.
It's hard to bite your tongue and sit back while this is happening. But, its the only thing you can do. Just be the best you can, for you and no body else. She will either realize what she has done and come back, or realize it and move on thinking its too late, or just not care. It's her road and she has to travel it. Just don't fall into the trap of trying to back her into a corner by that talk.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
