Oh Jelly, I am so sorry your heart is aching and reminded so much of the days when you watched your mom go through all you described. I am in tears. What a tough situation and heartbreaking battle.
I am so sorry for your friend and for all the pain she is facing but to know you are there with her, while it doesn't lessen the pain, allows her to talk to someone who REALLY GETS IT! That is invaluable.
This divorce stuff isn't for the faint of heart. The courage required to fight, to detach from the emotion of it all, to have the courage to NOT give in is all very hard to find some days. Your friendship provides a touchstone for her, i am sure.
You are a gem!
Previously known as ss06 Kid: D9 M: 12 yrs together 18 D final: pending
"These mountains that you are carrying, you were only supposed to climb." - Najwa Zebian
