No worries Jeep. I think I'm on the right track. I know the possibilities are endless and I know that there are other methods to go about this, I'm just comfortable right now with this approach. She very well may be in an EA or even a PA.. I just choose, for my family and my well being to believe that she's telling me the truth. Right now, at least, it's the only way I've been able to cope and GAL. The more I obsess the more lonely and depressed I feel. We just had a great family dinner after having gone to the gym. We talked nice. She did mention she was going to be traveling at the end of February. Normally this would upset me. But I don't feel upset right now. And I don't think I will get upset. I can't control what she does Who she's with or where she goes. All I can do is be the best I can be for me and my kids and try to show her through my actions, accomplishments and being the "lighthouse" that this is where she belongs. Cause I want her more than anything.....at least right now. I guess if that ever changes I will adapt. Hope for the best, prepare for the worst. That's my motto. Thanks Jeep, your considerations and insights do help. And I appreciate everyone's input. AK8
