Another Karen here....I just saw your post on another thread about the KLA tapes and I think it would be a wise investment if you are trying to find something to help you get back into the swing. I have listened to them and have the Marriage Breakthrough tapes as well and if I can get the chance to have H back, I will definitely be able to put them to use.
I have learned so much in the past yr+ as I'm sure you have that once these things are applied to your M, it's like being a teenager again. But, you have to make that happen w/Michelle's advice and run w/it.
I haven't read up on your sitch but it wouldn't hurt to have more on the reference shelf! Good luck!!! Tootles........