I suppose it is a mental adjustment, one of numerous ones. Idk what else to add, I wish I had some better input for you but I think it's just the way it is if you decide to stand. It's hard but gets better as time goes on. W basically slept on top of me for 13 years and it was very difficult to one day suddenly be alone but it does get easier, hang in there. This is one of those areas where I think about if she were in a coma what would I do.