You're on the right path. The one thing that pops up in my head when reading your posts is the fact that you seem to feel the need to get things moving.
It may take you letting go of the reins for a long period of time for your H to appreciate your leadership qualities and to see that something needs to be done.
Just my .02 worth.
Happy Easter!
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
