Yes, we are still together. We are not really working on the marriage, she said that she wants to go to MC. She said she loves me, and wants to stay married to me (I am not reading too much into this, I think she is still wayward, and trying to keep me around).

I want full transparency, which I haven't gotten. I get some transparency, but she still keeps phone password protected, and wont give it to me. She is still friends with om on Facebook.


She did tell me just a few minutes ago, when she called me, that she was over the other man, and has been for about two week. She said she has not texted him in two weeks either (I cant verify this). She told me that he did text her on Sunday, when she accidently tagged him in a facebook post, but she didn't respond and deleted the text. I saw her deleting a message that day, after she told me, but just ignored it.


I think she is trying to eat cake. We both see our ICs. She said she wants to do mc (like I said above) but she has made no effort. But then again neither have I. She does text and call me a lot, almost like in the old days. I don't know, really trying not to read anything into anything, and let her back too fast because I don't want this happening again.


Me:33, WW:30
BD:12/14/16, EA
no children
Still together