Same Sitch. New Approach. Motivated. Feeling Good.

[JRuss]

I don't know. Introspection is good, taking accountability is good, making changes that need to be made because you don't want to be the person you were, also good.

But at least 2 other men? We're not talking moral equivalency here, not by a long shot. She isn't a long-suffering WAW at this point; she crossed into WW territory some time ago and still lives there, and I just don't think you can mea culpa her back into your marriage at this point. Those rules of Sandi's -- that's where you want to be looking, I think.