Newbie....Wife has left , Need Help

[Gordie]

I'm not a vet nor a success story yet nor a WW but when my w asked me to let her go. I told her yes, I'm letting you go. The truth is you can't control her and if she feels trapped she can't freely love. It has to be voluntary. Again, it may have been the wrong thing to say but I did say something along the lines of: I'm letting you go. I'm letting go of the M. I don't want you to feel trapped.