Ok, so we had my dads funeral today. WW came with kids. She was somewhat pleasant. She approached me with convo saying I don't need an attorney bc she isn't trying to take anything from me in the divorce. I politely said, can we please give it some time so you can see my changes. She says' have my mind made up and I can't trust you'. Well I know how to fix this one, do what I say I'm gonna do. And right before they left to go back home (2hrs away) she wanted to talk again. She said you haven't changed, your kids were upset and you didn't even console them. Well, I did, but I also had my mom to be there for. As the conversation progressed I said 'we have 9 yrs in this and we both still love each other' and she didn't deny. I said I'm in it for the long haul and am willing to put in the work to repair things, she says 'it takes 2, and I'm not willing to put forth the work any more'. I say' I just want you happy' and her response was 'why won't you just let me go then'. What should I do at this point???
