...But what helps the most are the kids themselves. Their hugs, telling me that they love me, etc.
THIS^^
I am lucky enough to still be able to see my kids every day. My W and I both have designated nights out that we've agreed upon, but even on my nights out I make it a priority to get home before they go to bed. To joke around with them, sing songs to my daughter, and read with my son.
There are days when I have them by myself that my mind is preoccupied with my marriage problems. But I try my best to put those things aside and just enjoy being with them.
My heart goes out to the folks on this board who are dealing with a physical separation. Regardless of whether you're separated from your kids or your spouse is, it's a horrible situation to be in for everyone.
M46 W48 M11 T14 S11 D8 BD: 2016/05/27 In-home separation: 2016/11/23 Nesting: 2017/06/11 W moves out: 2018/01/07 W goes public with OM: 2018/07/12 I ask for a divorce: 2018/12/14
