It looks like youve already filed for divorce. What are you looking to gain from posting here?
Have you read Divorce Remedy? If not, Id suggest you start there. If you have, what are your goals?
In the meantime, what kind of GAL activity are you into now? You said youve been NC for a week. What is that like?
I've filed but I'm open to discussing R if she comes out of the fog, reaches out, and is genuinely remorseful. I'm just not sure that will happen because her denial of responsibility for her actions isn't new but rather something that's always been a part of her. She's fueled by hate towards me now and changing that would involve admitting she messed up. I guess I'm just looking for support and advice from others who have gone through the same thing.
I haven't read DR but definitely would if we were still in contact. Does it apply to my situation? I've not seen my W since 1/10 and last texted 1/15 so there aren't really situations to apply anything towards her. The NC has been tough. We'd text during the day and talk in the evenings and it's hard to not have that.
For GAL.. I'm exercising, reading, and going out to lunch/dinner with friends and family. I'm looking into signing up for a kickball team. But I'm also spending a lot of time just laying on the couch depressed.
