It was not. I needed some closure and I felt it on that day.
I find it both funny and sad...it does provide hope to all those wondering if the 'affair down' thing has any truth to it. Yes, apparently it does.
Yes and no. Our S5 does have a slight developmental disorder and he freaking talks about anything non-stop. Per my last post and the responses, I was just shouldering the stuff. But, when my S5 told me I should be happy like the OM and cool like him, well...I did not loose my cool on my S thank goodness. In this regard, no. Yes in the regard that my STBXW is playing the victim card and openly admits this guy has no future with her and she holds onto him b/c she can control him and he is dumb and it is easy (all her words) - well then, sounds like the perfect male influence for our child doesn't it.
"There is no more important fight than the one for ourselves. Keep on winning." Ginger1, Read her newbies. BD: Feb '16 D: Mar '17 Piecing: Putting the self back together was my piecing. S6
