Hi Bright! I understand the reasons to focus on our spouses actions in these situations. How else are we to know what is or isn't working, or where they're at? As long as it isn't stopping us from enjoying life, I see no harm. Post away. Like you said, your life is stable and steady as is, and you seem happy enough with it to me.
Originally Posted By: BrightFuture
As H being central in my posts I guess this is what I come here for My life is pretty stable and settled. I have one unresolved issue right now, which is H Like I said, I feel that Im at the crossroads, but dont know which way to go.
Does H know you are at a crossroads? If not, why?
Michele implores us to not wait until we are triple done to tell our spouse.
What do you think would happen if you told him? Play out all possible responses in your mind.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
