When we take charge of our lives there is no longer need to ask permission of other people. And it's my pov that currently she hasn't taken that charge.
completelylost,
Can you explain what you mean by no longer needing to ask permission of other people?
When I was married, if I wanted to buy something for myself, and if cost more than $100, then I'd always ask permission from my wife. I always wanted to make sure the purchase was ok with her. Is that the kind of permission you're talking about?
No, def ask permission there!! lol. I mean by what is important to you and how you chose to live your life. That is in how you 2 define what you relationship is founded on. That's why I mentioned the social constructs earlier, because we take so many ques on what it "should" be like that we rarely stop to ask is this congruent with my own beliefs.
