It's about her growth as a person for her, irrespective of me. And for me like I said growth is mandatory.
Can you explain how her growth for her is a requirement for you to remain in a marriage to her?
Not being critical here, but it is very vague. "Why did you leave her?" "She didn't grow for herself..." Whaaa?
What, specifically, does her lack of growth look like and mean?
I'm not sure I can satisfy your question with a specific answer because I'm not sure my perspective will align with what you view as a legitimate reason for having the perspective I have.
When we take charge of our lives there is no longer need to ask permission of other people. And it's my pov that currently she hasn't taken that charge.
I'm watching her, that's all I'm doing. No declarations, just watching... That's the best I can answer your question.
