WH's L had already filed, although WH denies it. He claims he didn't instruct them to do that. They can't move forward unless I'm served or waive service.

Also, I live out of state now so I don't think I can file in the state we used to live in.

Since we already have a settlement, there's no advantage to filing first.

Also, I think he should pay for it.


M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17