Hi Completelylost. thank you for coming back and posting. i really appreciated your advice. I was wondering if it would be possible to let us know a little more detail of how your wife came back to you and your thoughts on the process? thank you.
Hi James, I'm glad it was of use to you. As far as the details. She moved out a few months after BD and I did all the no-no's. Snooping, stalking, crying, begging, pleading etc... Once I determined there was a possible OM I had to let go. And I focused solely on me. And as I said I became so engulfed in growing that it became an inferno. I learned things about me, that I never knew. So while I was so bust growing I guess she started to notice me again. She would reach just to see how my day went, and before you know it we were having dates... Soon after she was forgoing renewing her lease and we where paving the road of being back together.
This is obviously the very abridged version. My nose was so far in the grind of growing I don't really know what specific moment it broke for her. I hope that answers your question if not, ask as many as you'd like and i'll answer the best I can.
