I think it's difficult to put too much emphasis on "compatibility scores". People answer what they think will sound good...just like what they write on their profiles. Every woman loves life, sees the cup as half full, likes wine,looks good in jeans or a little black dress, likes to laugh and her passion is travel...oh, and she works out day and night lol. One thing I've noticed is that what they emphasize as important is often what you won't get from them e.g. honesty, no games!It's only through contact where you really get an idea of whether you're on the same page or not. I often find women are not really committed to the idea of meeting someone. They're sticking their toe in the water and that's about it. I get it, it's scary! Anyway, what I've learned to do is not contact people who a) write "ask me" as their profile b) carry on about what they don't want c) put 20 photos of themselves online d) "let's be friends first" (is this Facebook?) e) "I'm new to this and not too sure about it" . I've learned to go with my gut with women too. Sometimes I think I've ditched them too early and go back but find out very quickly I should have stuck with my original gut decision. Anyway, I don't know if that helps but...
