One of the things my H told me during BD was that I wasn't loving enough. It's true he had always been the pursuer. After that, I've tried hugs, kisses and everything. He seems to accept them but doesn't return them or doesn't initiate them. It's been months like that and although things are not worse, he doesn't seem so angry at me, I'm not sure we're making progress. My question is, should the 180 strategy be applied to what our R used to be or to what I've been doing these last 10 months? I'm confused
I'm not really sure what you mean maybe one of the others can answer, But u say he is not so angry and he accepts your hugs and kisses,well that sounds like what your doing is working,if you change things it could push him away,think carefully,I will read your story,
Me 56 w52 M30 years 4x adult kids W dad died/11 W wanted d 03/12 In-house sep 03/12 D 2014 I pushed W Left on 02/16 I pushed Pa on 07/16 Nc after 07/16 W Cakeating 15to16 Me doormat 12to16 Limbo 12to16
