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It's about her growth as a person for her, irrespective of me. And for me like I said growth is mandatory.


Can you explain how her growth for her is a requirement for you to remain in a marriage to her?

Not being critical here, but it is very vague. "Why did you leave her?" "She didn't grow for herself..." Whaaa?

What, specifically, does her lack of growth look like and mean?

Me:38 XW:38
T:11 years M:8 years
Kids: S14, D11, D7
BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15