The OM is married and intends to remain married. He's was sexually and psychologically abused by his parents. His wife was sexually abused by her parents. Before meeting my ex-wife, he was fooling around with another woman that was sexually abused by her step father. His adult children show signs of abuse. He clearly knows how to groom victims and he can be cunning. My ex-wife was sexually abused by her baby sitter and the baby sitter's boyfriend and suffers from dissociative identity disorder.
In my opinion there's too much sexual abuse swirling around that guy to trust him with any children. He's not allowed to touch my sons in any way even if it's just accidentally bumping into them.
