Hi Gordie - I just wanted to stop by and say hello. I'm new here so like you, I'm looking for wisdom. I read your post on my thread and responded, but I'm still in moderation so either it's just out there somewhere waiting or I messed it up somehow.

Anyhow, I've spent a lot of time today reading lots of threads on the boards and I've read all of this one. I just wanted to say hang in there. You and I seem to be at the same point on this ride. I'd say high five in solidarity, but that seems too upbeat. Maybe that salute from the hunger games? That's more what it feels like to me, anyhow.

Have a good night, hope that you're able to rest. I find that the hardest, when I'm alone to think instead of sleeping. It's good to be here among friends.


Me : 42
Him : 43
M : 18, T : 19
D13, D11
4/16 1st BD (ILYB)
11/16 H wants s, moves out of br
1/17 H rents house & moves out
2/17 OW (he denies PA but EA last winter)
5/17 I filed for D 7/17 D Final