Re hobbies, what did you enjoy when you were single when you controlled your own time? You've got the gym which is great. Group exercise is also great for meeting friends, both men and women. What about art, music, writing...something you can do to tap into more expressive parts of yourself? Travel, foreign languages, food, wine? When was the last time you tried something new or unexpected?
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving