Yes, I found that part eye opening too. Thank you for that scripture...awesome!

In an unrelated note:

What is the right MLC strategy to avoid being Plan B? I'm feeling that's where I am in my W's mind, in case her fantasy doesn't work out. I of course have encouraged this by our initial R talks (pre DB) where I said I would always be there for her and that I was letting her go in the hope that she would come back to me...that even if she could have any man in the world that she would choose me! I know dating is one strategy, but don't think that would be right for me.


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving