I am not understanding the clause and how it relates to the OM. Perhaps I am not understanding the background of it as I do not know your sitch.
What I am not understanding here is why OM needs to be kept away your sons now that you and XW are officially divorced. She's free to date OM (or any man) and you are free to date women as well. I get that your M broke up because of OM...not cool. BUT what is the real reason why you have the clause in place preventing OM from being close or around your sons?
Oh and as for "others" too...like who?
Just trying to better understand the reasoning and the background context for the clause.
