WAS or what 9

[roist]

Ha who,
Thanks for dropping by. I appreciate your words of encouragement. I have a lot; f goals I am chipping away at. I am not progressing as fast as I would prefer but I avoid stressing about that. I am going in the right direction and tbh maybe I am working on too many things at once, but eventually it will all click together and Roist 2.0 will be born!!

I do make "me" time every week and every day. Buti I hear your advice. It is good and part of what I am working on. I have no problem getting busy but really getting a life outside the house I am not yet fully there. That being said I do sport with friends most weeks and go out now and again.

I am more active is seeking out fun stuff to do, something I have given more importance to this year than before. A few weeks ago I heard a band on the radio that I never heard of and when the DJ said they had a gig near us I just had to go. I went with a friend and it was v good. This is a 180 for me. I have not been to see a band in a long long time. But when I heard the add for them I just had a strong urge to go.

I aim to seize many more opportunities as they present and as I create them. Carpe Dium. I will balance this with my family life and work commitments.

Earlier on I wondered about going into LRT would "work" on snapping my W back into being: interested. Having observed her/us the last 2.5 years I believe it may just do that. I am now moving towards filling my life as opposed to trying a tactic to change her mind. I still learn about relationships and M including how to save them, but it is no longer my sole driving force.

Best wishes