Mine says she will always love me because I'm the father of the children, but it ends there.
Mine said she loves me and always wants me in her life but not as a husband.
Yes fg that is ATM but things change she could think differently at any time,there's an old saying ,you don't miss things till there gone,and if its true what is written about them being in the tunnel when in mlc journey its said some of them come out of the tunnel,and want to rekindle ,but not hallways and some never come out,its all in gods hands,
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And if they loved you once they can love you again,the woman you married is still deep down inside her and could come back it does happen,but it takes time how much time no one knows,or she could never come back and get stuck in the tunnel,its all in gods hands,what will be will be,
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It would be good if sotto or Sandi or job could talk on this,
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You must remember when in this crisis they don't know what they want some worse than others,there's chemical changers in there heads,affecting ther brains and thoughts its out of sync,they feel crap a lot of the time,and they blame you its all your doing all your fault,so they think if they get out get away from you it will fix things but they are wrong you know why cos its not you its them there self's that needs fixing and they can only fix them self's,
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At dinner with our kids, one our (my W & me) favorite movies was mentioned (a cheesy 70's pop-musical). Pre-BD, pre-MLC, my W would gush about the movie, and always recount how it was one of the things that brought us together. Tonight she said she didn't like it THAT much.
Pretty trivial, yet it feels so indicative of where she is.
Rewriting history.
Me: 50, MLC/WW 45 Young kids Nov 2015: BD1 Apr 2016: BD2 Jan 2017: W filed Feb 2017: D final
At dinner with ousr kids, one our (my W & me) favorite movies was mentioned (a cheesy 70's pop-musical). Pre-BD, pre-MLC, my W would gush about the movie, and always recount how it was one of the things that brought us together. Tonight she said she didn't like it THAT much.
Pretty trivial, yet it feels so indicative of where she is.
Rewriting history.
My w is exactly the same opossite to who they are,jeckle and Hyde split personality, Its things like that that showes their not them selves,
Me 56 w52 M30 years 4x adult kids W dad died/11 W wanted d 03/12 In-house sep 03/12 D 2014 I pushed W Left on 02/16 I pushed Pa on 07/16 Nc after 07/16 W Cakeating 15to16 Me doormat 12to16 Limbo 12to16
At dinner with ousr kids, one our (my W & me) favorite movies was mentioned (a cheesy 70's pop-musical). Pre-BD, pre-MLC, my W would gush about the movie, and always recount how it was one of the things that brought us together. Tonight she said she didn't like it THAT much.
Pretty trivial, yet it feels so indicative of where she is.
Rewriting history.
My w is exactly the same opossite to who they are,jeckle and Hyde split personality, Its things like that that showes their not them selves,
And they are rebelling against us ,its all our fault,like my teenage kids did,
Me 56 w52 M30 years 4x adult kids W dad died/11 W wanted d 03/12 In-house sep 03/12 D 2014 I pushed W Left on 02/16 I pushed Pa on 07/16 Nc after 07/16 W Cakeating 15to16 Me doormat 12to16 Limbo 12to16
At dinner with ousr kids, one our (my W & me) favorite movies was mentioned (a cheesy 70's pop-musical). Pre-BD, pre-MLC, my W would gush about the movie, and always recount how it was one of the things that brought us together. Tonight she said she didn't like it THAT much.
Pretty trivial, yet it feels so indicative of where she is.
Rewriting history.
My w is exactly the same opossite to who they are,jeckle and Hyde split personality, Its things like that that showes their not them selves,
And they are rebelling against us ,its all our fault,like my teenage kids did,
When they are in this mlc state,your dealing with a spoilt teenage kid,I want it and I want it now, and I'm going to get it,
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I've noticed that, too, in mine. Just means that what they once loved with/about us they now despise because its remindful to them.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
I've noticed that, too, in mine. Just means that what they once loved with/about us they now despise because its remindful to them.
Me too,they truly are in lala land'
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