***...she feels she wants passion[ate]...just not with me.***

Sigh, I've heard this one. She says she likes ML with me, but she says she's no one man can satisfy her...

***As for what she got out of it...she claimed they were just friends...***

Yes, my W said she and her POM were just friends and that she had no control over how she started feeling towards him...do you know your W's EA is completely over?

***She is more involved with our church and our outreach programs now than she has ever been.***

Maybe it's good that she's more engaged/involved? Maybe it gives her more opportunity to be touched by something there...in God's time...


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving