My question is, how can you trust her again after cheating?
That's the million dollar question. For me, I don't. She knows I don't. I also don't care. I love her and treat her like a queen. If she wants to betray me again I can't stop her.
Not to hijack completelylost's thread, but this was the a-ha moment for me and it's what convinced me to stop spying on my W. Once trust is broken it has to be rebuilt step by step over time with consistency. Spying or full disclosure really only gives you information. But having information doesn't help establish trust. In fact, the goal is to be able to trust with less information.
M46 W48 M11 T14 S11 D8 BD: 2016/05/27 In-home separation: 2016/11/23 Nesting: 2017/06/11 W moves out: 2018/01/07 W goes public with OM: 2018/07/12 I ask for a divorce: 2018/12/14
