I have a special clause in the mediation agreement
Can you explain this?
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My sons are 12 and 14 and they both have cell phones. They know what to do if anyone starts creating trouble; yell, scream, dial 911 and call daddy.
I wish mine were able to do this. When skyping with them she has gotten very, very short and yells. On at least one occasion she has stopped it only to call back a few minutes later. I put in the agreement that Skype/calls/etc would be whenever either the parent or kids want it - I do it at least twice as much as she.
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My xW knows the boundaries on the people she can have around the boys and she knows the end result if she exposes them to people that they shouldn't be around. If it's the OM; he's not walking away. If it's others, then I'll haul her @ss into court and she'll have to endure psychological testing. She's deathly afraid of psych testing.
What kind of boundaries and how? I had put in mine that no people with abusive history, criminals, etc. But how do you enforce it - how do you enforce what you don't know? Do your kids rat her out? And as far as the OM goes, this one won't be walking out, either.
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I'm lucky that my sons are old enough to figure things out.
Mine aren't there yet. They still believe in her.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
