My first post: Hurting/scared

[Dawgs]

Alaska,

Few questions, my friend:

(Start looking at job opportunities back home and look into housing options and how I will support my children and myself if and when we move.

I read this as if you and the kids would move to a different location. How would this affect any custody she will get?

1. The passions gone.
2. I love you but I'm not in love with you.
3. I need my independence.

Standard from all.

4. We got together to young, I didn't have a chance to experience anything.

That's entirely possible and not indicative of a MLC.

5. I need space.
6. I want to focus on my career.

Space = leave me alone; as is career.

7. Excessively shopping for clothes.
8. Comes home and goes to her room, closes the door, puts music on.
9. Walks around the house with headphones on.

Uh oh. Flags for EA/PA

The rest seem to markers for MLC. Or maybe she just wants out.

The guilt relates to our kids, not really me.

Bingo.