Update: after our chat a couple of days ago, we both agreed that we need to work on ourselves and try to heal from loosing our and other challenges we've had before we can make our marriage work the way it should. We both want it to work, so we aren't going ahead with the divorce.
Let's focus on you. What are you going to do to work on yourself?
I'll start by going back mto martial arts training. I stopped going because of the time the classes were on. They were on when the kids needed to be fed and bathed. I'll find another place with times that are more suitable.
