Hi completelylost. Sounds to me like you need to change your username
I realize there's some healthy debate going on in this thread, but I just wanted to post to say that I really needed to read what you initially posted. It's very encouraging for me right now. So thanks!
M46 W48 M11 T14 S11 D8 BD: 2016/05/27 In-home separation: 2016/11/23 Nesting: 2017/06/11 W moves out: 2018/01/07 W goes public with OM: 2018/07/12 I ask for a divorce: 2018/12/14