wow, just because D is nearing doesn't mean she's not following the WW script. re writing history, classic! I think the only difference between your D and the rest of us holding on is the fact that yeah we were able to see a terrible side of our Spouses but we chose to stay and have hope. Whereas you saw it and decided it’s not something you can live with. Ultimately I believe we will all reach that point, some quicker than others and some might have their S’s come back, therefore not needing to.