I'm watching a death spiral in her now. Her FB posts are becoming more erratic and there is nothing I can do. Sure, she gets the support on there from family and friends. I don't answer her stuff. Maybe I should - who knows. I know what many of her friends - and some, if not most, of what her family does not know, and that is the abusive past she suffered.. That saddens me...saddens me to watch the demons take hold of who was once was everything to me. I know I shouldn't be bothered by what's happening to her. But I am. Part of me is afraid for her.
Jeep,
I know what you mean. My wife's childhood abuse is coming back to haunt her and she hangs out with people that aren't going to help her and they'll likely cause even more damage. I just make sure my sons are safe; beyond that, there isn't anything I can do.
