I'm really sorry for everything you're going through! I'm dealing with a MLC H who lives at home.
Mine is also overwhelmed about aging. He adds the line "I'm old" to refer to different things and situations. He's going to the gym more than he used to. He's too concerned about getting ill, even getting a cold. Right after BD, last April, he became obsessed with the film Benjamin Button. He said everybody should be born old and then grow younger. He's feels everything is so unfair!
As to our relationship, he sleep together but he avoids physical contact when we bump into each other in the house. As somebody told you, a stranger would be nicer to me!
