Wow, You are D.O.N.E!

I guess the crazy rewriting your SBXW is doing validates you're being that done. Talk about boundaries!

She didn't think you'd act on them (the boundaries) and wanted to cake eat. Or maybe it was her goal at the outset to let you be the fall/bad guy.

And you're right, it doesn't matter what she says or does, and it matters even less what others think.

Good.for.you.