Glad to hear your DBing has helped you so much with independence, happiness, and strength. Do you not want to wait for your wife to catch up? It's often the case that there's mismatched timing and its part of the marriage agreement to stick it out and wait it out until there's balance again. Right? Believe me, I'm not one to talk. I waffle daily between giving up on my H (despite very gratifying personal growth) and holding on because that's what I signed up for.
Might you feel a tinge of resentment or disdain for your W? Is there a way you can help her? Do you want to help her?
