Originally Posted By: SBJ
Everything is all about them...you are right. Even though she feels like she spent the last 20+ years taking care of everyone else like her sisters, her parents, her kids, and her family...like most people do day in and day out. I never put any demands on her regarding anything...we never fought over the house, money, kids, work...nothing like that. Our only issue was the regularity in the romance department.


1. What was the issue regarding regularity in the romance department?

2. You also indicated she had an EA which preceded the BD. What was she getting from the EA that she wasn't getting in the M?

3. Also, has your W just drifted away from the faith...or is she in rebellion against it?


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving