You do not sound pathetic at all ginger.

Why do you believe that he still feels the same?

Sometimes (for me anyway) having crushes helps me have something positive to think about. Its like a nice break from life to have a fantasy. It actually motivates me to dress up. But i guess it is only healthy if it's not interfering with your reality.

I'm at a stage where I don't even have a crush on anyone.


M: 42
H: 43
Twins age 5
WAH in summer