Don, may bell completely nailed it! Listen to this advice!
It made me realize I do not even look for a ""person" anymore. I look for the the relationship. Now, I believe that is hurting me in a way too. I do look to far to the future to make sure we are compatible . I'm so scared to have things end as they have in my M.
But I do think you need to stop finding the perfect woman. Look for a suitable partner. Really visit what you want in a relationship. Think about what you have to offer someone else.
