Hey, JellyB. You are a caring friend and know that although you say you could offer her nothing, just being there for her is an amazing thing. When XH left and I was at my lowest low, not one of my so-called friends checked on me. Yet when I branched out and found friends, those who have stuck have shown me what true friends can offer: presence. Just calling to say hello or how have you been is an amazing show of support.

Be there for her so that she is not alone. I know you will, but know that that is a very powerful thing to her as she goes through this. Better than any advice, probably.


M-51 H-54
2D-27 and 25
M-26 yrs
Bombshell and IHS 7-29-15
He moved out 10-3-15
D filed 1-27-16
D final 10-27-16

Kindness, kindness, kindness.